Oct 2, 2010
Lessons in Life

Lessons in Life 1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. 4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 8. It's okay to get angry with God. He can take it. 9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 12. It's okay to let your children see you cry. 13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks. 16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying. 17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today. 18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write. 19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow. 23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 24. The most important sex organ is the brain. 25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you. 26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?" 27. Always choose life. 28. Forgive everyone everything. 29. What other people think of you is none of your business. 30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. 31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch. 33. Believe in miracles. 34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. 35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. 37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable. 38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion. 39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now. 42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. 44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 45. The best is yet to come. 46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. 48. If you don't ask, you don't get. 49. Yield. 50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

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Jun 17, 2008
Today is a Gift

Yesterday is a History
Tomorrow is a Mystery
Today is a Gift..
That's why it is called Present..

- Kung Fu Panda

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May 25, 2008
My 4 Boyfriends

Once upon a time there was a girl
who had four boyfriends.
She loved the 4th boyfriend the most
and adorned him with rich robes and
treated him to the finest of
delicacies. She gave him nothing but
the best.
She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very
much and was always showing him off to
neighboring kingdoms. However, she
feared that one day he would leave her
for another.
She also loved her 2nd boyfriend. He
was her confidant and was always kind,
considerate and patient with her.
Whenever this girl faced a problem,
she could confide in him, and he would
help her get through the difficult
The girl s 1st boyfriend was a very
loyal partner and had made great
contributions in maintaining her
wealth and kingdom. However, she did
not love the first boyfriend. Although
he loved her deeply, she hardly took
notice of him!
One day, the girl fell ill and she
knew her time was short. She thought
of her luxurious life and wondered,
I now have four boyfriends with me,
but when I die, I'll be all alone."
Thus, she asked the 4th boyfriend, "I
loved you the most, endowed you with
the finest clothing and showered great
care over you. Now that I'm dying,
will you follow me and keep me
"No way!", replied the 4th boyfriend,
and he walked away without another
His answer cut like a sharp knife
right into her heart.
The sad girl then asked the 3rd
boyfriend, "I loved you all my life.
Now that I'm dying, will you follow me
and keep me company?"
"No!", replied the 3rd
boyfriend. "Life is too good! When you
die, I'm going to marry someone else!"
Her heart sank and turned cold.
She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, "I
have always
turned to you for help and you've
always been there for me.
When I die, will you follow me and
keep me company?"
"I'm sorry, I can't help you out this
time!", replied the 2nd boyfriend. "At
the very most, I can only walk with
you to your grave."
His answer struck her like a bolt of
lightning, and the girl was
Then a voice called out: "I'll go with
you. I'll follow you no matter where
you go."
The girl looked up, and there was her
first boyfriend. He was very skinny as
he suffered from malnutrition and
Greatly grieved, the girl said, "I
should have taken much better care of
you when I had the chance!"
In truth, you have 4 boyfriends in
your lives:
Your 4th boyfriend is your body. No
matter how much time and effort you
lavish in making it look good, it will
leave you when you die.
Your 3rd boyfriend is your
possessions, status and wealth.When
you die, it will all go to others.
Your 2nd boyfriend is your family and
friends. No matter how much they have
been there for you, the furthest they
can stay by you is up to the grave.
And your 1st boyfriend is your Spirit.
Often neglected in pursuit of wealth,
power and pleasures of the world.
However, your Spirit is the only thing
that will follow you where ever you
go.Cultivate, strengthen and cherish
it now, for it is the only part of you
that will follow you to the throne of
God and continue with you throughout
Thought for the day: Remember, when
the world pushes you to your knees,
you're in the perfect position to
Pass this on to someone you care
about - I just did.
Being happy doesn't mean
everything's perfect. It means you've
decided to see beyond the
I hope this touched you!God bless.

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31 ways to make a girl smile

31 ways to make a girl smile

1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out.
2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.
3. Hug her from behind.
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up.
5. Wrestle with her.
6. Don't go hang out with you ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.
7. If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.
8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"..and not just at night after you've already been out with other girls.
9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.
10. Play with her hair.
11. Pick her up.
12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it.
13. Make her laugh, if you can make her laugh, you can make her do anything.
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.
16. If you care about her, then tell her.
17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).
18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.
19. Look her in the eyes and smile.
20. Hang out with her on weekends.
21. Kiss her in the rain.
22. Kiss her just for the heck of it.
23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.
24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if
its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER. it's the thought that counts.
25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)
26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
27. Give her what she wants.
28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
29. Tell her she's beautiful, she needs to know her striving is working.
30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang with your girl friend all the time.
31. If u care about her...SHOW her!

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Dec 25, 2007
Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas~!!

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Dec 22, 2007
Your Guardian Angel

Your Guardian Angel

The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus

When I see your smile,
Tears run down my face.
I can't replace.
And now that I'm strong, I have figured out,
How this world turns cold and it breaks through my soul.
And I know I'll find deep inside me,
I can be the one.

I will never let you fall. (let you fall.)
I'll stand up with you forever.
I'll be there for you through it all. (through it all.)
Even if saving you sends me to heaven.

It's okay.
It's okay.
It's okay-e-ay-e-ay.

Seasons are changing,
And waves are crashing,
And stars are falling all for us.
Days grow longer and nights grow shorter,
I can show you I'll be the one

I will never let you fall. (let you fall.)
I'll stand up with you forever.

I'll be there for you through it all. (through it all.)
Even if saving you sends me to heaven.

'Cause you're my, you're my, my-e-y-e-y,
My true love, my whole heart.

Please don't throw that away.
'Cause I'm here... for you!
Please don't walk away and,
Please tell me you'll stay... here!


Use me as you will!
Pull my strings just for a thrill!
And I know I'll be okay,
Though my skies are turning gray! (gray! gray!)

I will never let you fall!
I'll stand up with you forever!
I'll be there for you through it all,
Even if saving you sends me to heaven!

I will never let you fall!
I'll stand up with you forever!
I'll be there for you through it all,
Even if saving you sends me to heaven! (fade out)

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Dec 15, 2007
'cause you make me smile baby



I've been awake for a while now
You've got me feelin' like a child now
'Cause every time I see your bubbly face
I get the tingles in a silly place

And it starts in my toes
And I crinkle my nose
Wherever it goes
I always know
That you make me smile

Please stay for a while now
Just take your time
Wherever you go

The rain is falling on my window pane
But we are hiding in a safer place
Under covers staying safe and warm
You give me feelings that I adore

And it starts in my toes
Makes me crinkle my nose
Wherever it goes
I always know
That you make me smile
Please stay for a while now
Just take your time
Wherever you go

What am I gonna say
When you make me feel this way
I just mmmmm

And they start in my toes
Makes me crinkle my nose
Wherever it goes
I always know
That you make me smile
Please stay for a while now
Just take your time
Wherever you go

I've been asleep for a while now
You tuck me in just like a child now
'Cause every time you hold me in your arms
I'm comfortable enough to feel your warmth

And it starts in my soul
And I lose all control
When you kiss my nose
The feeling shows
'cause you make me smile baby
Just take your time now
Holdin' me tight

Wherever wherever wherever you go
Wherever wherever wherever you go

wherever you go
I always know
'Cause you make me smile
Even just for a while

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7 Signs He's a Keeper

1. He keeps agreements


• If your man says he will be there to pick u up after your marathon spa session, he will be -- no ifs ands or buts.

• If he is going to be late, he will do the courteous thing and call to let you know.

•You can really on him to do what he commits to.


2. He's emotionally mature and responsible


• He's not the type to blame others, or circumstances, for life situations.

• He accepts accountability for his actions and is willing to self-examine, take responsibility and grow personally.



3. He's Honest


• You're not going to catch your guy in a lie.

• If he is out having fun with his guy friends, then he tells you and treats with respect.

• Not only does he treat people fairly and honestly, he lives by a code of ethics that demonstrates his integrity.



4. He loves being with you


•A man who shows you in so many ways that light up his life is a definite keeper.

• He really wants to be with you to share time and experiences with you, even if it means heading to the mall for yearend sales.

• He is happy to hear your voice.

• He cant hide how he feels about you.



5. He's a Communicator


• A good communicator knows that there are two sides to a conversation- that of the speaker and the listener - and they both make turns.

• He actually listens to your side of the story, not just nodding his head or impatiently waiting for his turn to talk.

• He should genuinely interested in what you have to say, whether chatting about favorite movies or having an argument.



6. He has a great relationship with family and friends


• Ever hear the saying that if you see how a man treats his mother you will know how he will treat you?

• A man who has a sound relationship with his family and friends reveals he has good family values and the potential to be an excellent husband and father.

• And while every family has ups and downs, seeing your man stand tall and be supportive of his family is a good sign he's one to hang on to, because he will do the same for you.



7. He is emotionally available and confident.


• He's not afraid to tell you exactly how he feels.

• A man who is comfortable in his own skin, and who can express who he is and how he feels without worrying about what anyone thinks, is a great catch.

• He will be emotionally available to you because he trusts you and he loves you.

• He knows you  love him and is confident about the strength of you relationship.



by Jennifer Weatherhead


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Dec 11, 2007

Haha.. saya saya.. happy ^_^




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Oct 18, 2007
hapi bday~!!

haha hapi bday sayo!

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